Learn how AI guides your conversations with wisdom drawn from the world's leading relationship experts.
Meet In The Field provides AI-guided relationship counselling that helps couples communicate more effectively. Unlike traditional therapy, you can access it anytime, anywhere - whenever both partners are ready to talk.
Our AI counsellor doesn't replace human therapists. Instead, it offers a gentle, always-available space for the everyday conversations that strengthen relationships - the check-ins, the difficult topics you've been avoiding, or simply a guided space to reconnect.
Our AI counsellor draws from three of the most respected approaches in modern relationship therapy.
Renowned for her work on desire and modern relationships, Esther Perel's approach helps couples explore the tension between security and adventure, asking provocative questions that shift perspectives and deepen understanding.
Based on decades of research, the Gottman Method helps identify destructive patterns (the "Four Horsemen") and builds the "Sound Relationship House" through friendship, fondness, and turning toward each other's bids for connection.
An attachment-informed approach that understands protest behaviors as unmet attachment needs. Helps partners become each other's "safe haven" and "secure base," creating lasting security in the relationship.
The session begins by asking each partner what they hope to achieve. Getting a specific intention from each person helps focus the conversation and gives you both something to work toward together.
As you talk, the AI counsellor gently guides the conversation. It addresses one partner at a time, often turning to the other to ask what they heard or how something landed. This creates space for both voices to be heard.
"Alex, what do you hear in that?" ... "Jordan, how does that land for you?" ... "Tell each other directly what you need."
The counsellor notices and gently names patterns - when criticism creeps in, when someone withdraws, or when a repair attempt is made. It reframes accusations as wishes and helps you see the underlying needs beneath the words.
Sessions close by summarizing progress, checking if both partners feel heard, and identifying one concrete takeaway or action. You leave with something practical to carry into your relationship.
Choose the focus that fits your conversation. Standard Guidance is free; specialized modes are available with Premium.
Expert guidance drawing from all three therapeutic foundations. Perfect for general check-ins, everyday communication, and building connection.
Specialized in de-escalation and finding common ground. Helps identify the Four Horsemen and guides toward repair attempts.
Focuses on emotional and physical connection. Builds Love Maps, encourages appreciation, and creates safety for vulnerability.
For life transitions and shared goal-setting. Helps clarify individual and shared visions, surface unspoken assumptions, and align on decisions.
We understand that relationship conversations are deeply personal. Your sessions are encrypted and private. We don't share your conversations or use them to train AI models. You're in control of your data.
Read our full Privacy Policy →Meet In The Field's AI counsellor is informed by the publicly available therapeutic practices and published works of Esther Perel, The Gottman Institute, and Julie Menanno. This service is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or sponsored by these individuals or organisations. All trademarks, service marks, and copyrights remain the property of their respective holders. This AI-guided service is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health treatment. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please contact a qualified healthcare provider or emergency services.